Since when do black women allow men to beat the shit out of them? Is Rhianna and Skin Diamond's hairstyle a symbol to psycho men that says "beat the shit out of me?"

Monica Foster editorial: 

Rhianna and her new hairstyle

Since when do black women allow men to beat the shit out of them? No woman should allow ANY man to leave her black and blue, but at least up until now it's seemed that black women especially didn't put up with that crap.

Rhianna bruised after Chris Brown beat her

I'm very disturbed to see that not just 1, but 2 high profile women who happen to be black openly acknowledging being beaten by their lovers and acting as if it's OK.

In porn it's Skin Diamond and in mainstream Hollywood it's Rhianna. Someone please get these women off the world stage.

Skin Diamond with the same hairstyle
as Rhianna (is it a gang symbol saying
"beat me"?)

Furthermore, why do both Skin Diamond and Rhianna have the same hairstyle! WTF?!?! Is that hairstyle some sort of secret society symbol that tells the male members that these women are OK with having the shit beat out of them? Are both Skin Diamond and Rhianna Ordo Templi Orientis members or SLAVES? 

Skin Diamond's bruises she shows off from her BDSM
shoots on her blog.